Monday, July 21, 2014

What Inspired Me?

This months Compassion blogger assignment was to write about what inspired us to sponsor a child with Compassion in the very beginning.


For me it wasn't one specific thing.  I'd always thought about eventually sponsoring a child, but I wasn't sure on what organizations were out there, what was involved (time/money/writing, etc.).  I didn't research it either though, so at the time it was just a thought that it might be a good thing to do "someday".  I don't know what I was waiting for really. 

In January 2012 we went to a Christian music concert (there were like 6 different bands).  Compassion had a booth and the different artists talked about what child sponsorship was, how they had met their kids, etc.  Tenth Avenue North was one of the groups who talked about it along with Mercy Me.  During a break between artists they did a "packet pass" where you raise your hand if you are interested in sponsoring and volunteers walk around with packets of kids needing sponsors (I have since helped out at many of these events and done this exact same thing for others). 

We decided that we had the funds and we should sponsor a child.  We raised our hand and were handed 5 year old Said from Peru.  He looked so cute.  You can either sponsor the child you were handed or go to the table at the booth and look through the pile of other kids.  We decided to keep Said since we felt that God had them hand him to us for a reason.  Plus, how can you really pick one child over another.....its so hard deciding!  They all need the help so we filled out the form, handed it in, and haven't looked back. 

Said has been a great letter writer and artist.  Now that he's 7 he is finally writing his own letters (before it was his tutors) so it is neat seeing his handwriting improve.  Right after we signed up to sponsor Said I did a ton of research on Compassion.  I learned about how the money helps the kids in various ways, how to build a relationship with them through letters, etc. I found great blogs and Facebook groups to join and learned that I could be a correspondence sponsor as well (where someone else sponsors them financially but they don't want to write to them for whatever reason, so the correspondence sponsor does that instead......and the kid thinks you are their new sponsor).

In February 2012 I signed up to be a correspondence sponsor to Selemani from Tanzania and Priyanga from India.  I was doing great for about a year with those three, and then decided to get a few more correspondence kids.  In February 2013 I decided we could financially sponsor more than one so for my birthday I decided to sponsor someone.  A fellow advocate was posting about Sonia, who was 5 (almost 6) from Rwanda whom Laurent could go visit and take pictures for us when he let her know who her new sponsor was.  To me that was an awesome opportunity so that helped me decide to sponsor her. 

After Sonia, I got a few more correspondence kids and then cut myself off, since I wanted to make sure I had enough time to write to them all every month.  I said to stop at 8, but then they accidentally added 2 more to my account (which I can't say no to since I'm sure God had a reason for it), so after that I had them for sure take me off the list so that I could keep up.  They were my perfect 10.

Then God really tested us.

As I just mentioned I added Sonia in February 2013, bringing our financial sponsorship to 2 (with 8 correspondence kids whom we also sent birthday money to and letters and such).  In April 2013 we took a missions trip to Costa Rica.  We came back to a voicemail from Compassion stating that Flor's financial sponsor had dropped her sponsorship.  We needed to decide if we wanted to pick up her financial sponsorship or let her go out into the system to be sponsored by someone else.  We hadn't received a single letter from her yet since she was only added a few months before (but I had already sent her like 10 letters telling how much we loved her and such).  Now as I said before, I can't say no to any of them, especially once I've told them we care for them.  After talking to Adam we decided we'd take on her sponsorship too.  Now we were at 3 sponsorships and 7 correspondence kids.

Then a month later we were tested again, when we received that dreaded phone call.  Priyanga's financial sponsor dropped her.  She was our first correspondence girl and she wrote wonderful letters to us (in English even), calling us auntie and uncle.  How could I ever drop her either?  After having them delay the start of the financial charges by one month, we picked up Priyanga.  She was told her sponsor dropped her so she wrote a new "first letter" to us again.  It took a little while for her to realize it was still us!  But now we are back to our great relationship. 

After that I was scared that it would keep happening to our correspondence kids.  We can afford 4 right now (since we don't have any actual kids) but I don't want to get into a position where I'd have to give any up if our finances change so that part worries me with correspondence kids.  I just pray and know God will provide...either for us to keep them, or to allow my heart to let them go if that ever does happen. 

We've been fortunate enough to get to go to Peru and meet our 3 kids there (2 sponsored, 1 correspondence).  We are so happy that we were able to keep Flor since I can't imagine not getting to know that sweet girl.

Back in March 2014 our oldest (and first correspondence boy), Selemani decided to move out of his Compassion project area (so he could no longer be part of the program).  He was almost 21 and had finished high school so it was still a great success.  He was moving to find a better job for himself so that is always a good reason!  It was still a sad day.  I decided to replace him with another correspondence child as they were posting that there was a great need for correspondence sponsors at that time.  I received Diane from Rwanda who is 18 and sponsored by a business (so I can be safe that she won't get dropped, thankfully!).  I was back to my round number of 10.  Then there were still kids who needed correspondence sponsors and I took a leap of faith and got 2 more (one of whom is also sponsored by a business so that should be safer too).  I've kept my requests to the same countries:  Tanzania, Philippines, Rwanda, Peru, and India so that I have multiple kids per country (Tanzania is down to 1 kid now though after Selemani left the program).  That way if we are ever able to visit, we can see more than one kid at a time.

I am content with my dozen :) 

That is my long version of why I started with Compassion, how I've grown in numbers, and grown in faith by picking up additional sponsorships, etc.  I've became an advocate, helped spread the word about Compassion, and helped at events.  I just love this organization and all the blessings it has brought me. Thanks for reading my story.

If you feel ready to sponsor your first child, please Click here to see kids waiting for a sponsor  It will bring you to the Compassion website where you can search for a child to add to your family and heart :)  Thanks.

Wednesday, July 9, 2014

Finally....a little about our trip to Peru!

I can't believe I haven't blogged about my sponsor trip to Peru with Compassion International yet.  I was busy catching up when I got back, and now I guess I've just been slacking :)

Here are a few highlights:

*Obviously #1 on my list will have to be meeting our 3 sponsored kids!
*Getting to meet other great sponsors who are also passionate about Compassion.
*Learning more about the different aspects and programs of Compassion such as the Child Survival Program, Leadership Development Program, and of course the Child Sponsorship Program.  Seeing these programs first hand was great to be able to see how the kids benefited in each one.
 *Meeting the great staff in the country....tutors, pastors, project workers, translators, etc. Our staff from Colorado was great too :)


Here are a few pictures from meeting our Compassion kids in Peru:

On May 7th, we had a fun day at a water park where we met Yessica (our correspondence child).

Here we are when we first met her.  We were all smiles.  I had cried on the bus in anticipation of seeing her for the first time.  Then when we got there and saw all the kids from a distance I found her in the crowd and got excited.  I held back tears for the hugs....but the end of the day the tears came back during the goodbyes.




Yessica came with her dad.  They had a 6 hour bus ride to the location and came the night before and stayed in a hotel.  I'm sure that was a fun experience for them.  Her dad had a baby only 10 days before so we were able to give them some baby clothes as a gift (we knew they were pregnant but not how far along....it was a little boy).  Her dad was so thankful for our support.  He made a sash for Adam and a messenger bag for me (which took him 5 days to make!).  He does these sort of textiles as a business so it was special for him to share his skills with us.

Here we are with his handiwork (Yessica and her dad are in the middle).


We gave Yessica lots of presents and clothes, including this Minnesota Vikings shirt.  I have the same one so we can be twins :)


Towards the end of the day Yessica and I were crying when we looked at each other and thought about having to say goodbye.  We wiped away our tears and took more group shots so that we'd have memories in the future.  She has red cheeks from the sun (and from crying)....and me too.
 One final group shot towards the end of the day.
Obviously this is only a portion of our pictures.  I took about 100 or so...which I printed out and will be sending to her 20 at a time because of the thickness restrictions per letter.  She'll keep getting pictures as the year goes on and will keep remembering new moments from our fun day together.  She is 14 years old and wants to be a doctor someday.  We love this girl so much!


Now on to the next fun day......where we met our two sponsored kids at an amusement park on May 9th.



First up was Said (age 7) and his mom.  Said was our very first sponsored child.  Adam gave him a big hug and spun him around.  We later found out that his dad is out of the picture so I'm sure he appreciated having a male figure show him affection and love.
 I awkwardly waited for my turn to say hello.

Next up was 11 year old Flor and her mom. 

Adam and Said.

Me and Flor.


We went on rides at the amusement park.  It was the first time they were on a roller coaster (for the mom's too!).  They enjoyed it but were a little scared.  

Flor and Said waiting in line to go on the roller coaster (again).  I love her smile.  She was shy though so when she noticed I wanted to take a picture she sometimes turned away so these moments had to be captured quick!  Said was hyper and talkative like any 7 year old boy so he lead the group around and Flor was quiet and shy and just followed him along.  Flor lives near Lima (so had about a 2 hour bus ride to get there that morning).  Said is from southern Peru so he had a 16 hour bus ride.  Said and his mom came the night before by bus and stayed in a hotel.  It was his 2nd time in a hotel he said, but the first time in an elevator :)  The transportation and hotel costs for the kids and their parents were covered by our trip costs so we were glad they were able to travel and have these fun new memories.

Flor and Said (and Adam) checking out the parrots in the small zoo area of the park.


The four of us being silly.

We had two great translators with us (both on the right side of the table).  With two kids, and two parents having two was awesome!  Said was super talkative so having a fast translator helped us understand him.  And having a second translator helped me try to ask Flor questions while Said was talking with Adam and the others too.


Adam and Said went on the log ride.  We used the towels we brought them (in case we went to the water park portion...but it was too chilly) to keep Said a little dry.  They still got wet but he didn't care.
Flor loved the animals, especially the chickens.  She got a sole (like 30 cents) from her mom in order to get chicken feed from the machine to feed the chickens (we later got more for the other animals).


 Here she is feeding a horse.  I love her joyful smile/laugh.


They both love the horses.


Here we are with both kids, parents, and our one translator (the other took the picture). We gave them backpacks full of school supplies, books, toys, etc.  We also gave each kid a bag of clothes as well as towels and gifts for their families.  I loved shopping for them :)


A group shot at the end of the day.  Said held on to his new soccer ball and liked his new stocking hat (even though it wasn't that cold...lol).

Us with Flor and her mom.

Individual shots so each kid felt special.

Said and his mom with us.

Again, we had a ton of pictures (probably between 150-200) of this fun day.  We printed a ton out for Flor and Said so they will be getting them a small stack at a time throughout the year.  We had given each kid a small photo album to put the pictures in but I should have given them a couple since they won't all fit...lol.

This second fun day we knew more what to expect after already going through one a few days before with Yessica.  I didn't cry at the beginning but at the end after we took these pictures, Flor started to cry so I hugged her and cried....and then Said started to tear up a little!  It was sad waving goodbye to them when their bus left.

These fun days were some of the best days of our lives.


Obviously I have more to talk about with going to the different Compassion projects and such too but this will end my post for today.  Let me know if you have any questions or if you would like help sponsoring a child of your own.  It is so worth it!

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